Posted by sunny10 on December 5, 2004, at 14:33:42
In reply to Re: Funerals, How Many Friends Do We Really, posted by Susan47 on December 4, 2004, at 22:56:09
don't think that just because tears are not shed that the person has deep feelings...
remember disassociation?? As a tool for our momentary survival? A lot of people practice that!!!
And, no, I don't think you're weird to muse like this. Almost everyone I know has thought about this- we've had discussions about it!
I do like the idea of celebrating a life rather than gathering like buzzards or something... the disco ball thing gets my vote.
But, hon, musing is okay- dwelling on the subject isn't. Are you okay? I missed you. It seemed too weird to post you when you couldn't post back (just me, I guess...)
I'm glad you're here. You've been a great help to me!
poster:sunny10
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