Posted by Miss Honeychurch on November 16, 2004, at 8:35:24
In reply to Today was Bad, posted by AdaGrace on November 15, 2004, at 18:41:30
AdaG,
Do you really think you could have just remained "friends" with this guy? Do you ever think that perhaps if he did agree to be friends that you would be hurting more than you are now? Can you approach it from the viewpoint that it is actually ADVANTAGEOUS to you in the long run to have no relationship with this man?
Also, are you still in therapy? I think you mentioned awhile back that you were. All of this self hate talk is so distressing. If you continue to loath yourself the way you do, nothing will change. Do you address this with your T?
(((AdaGrace)))
poster:Miss Honeychurch
thread:416368
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