Posted by jujube on November 6, 2004, at 14:31:16
In reply to Would you be able to do it?, posted by SAW on September 1, 2004, at 1:49:54
I don't know, but maybe this is an opportunity for you to "exorcize your demons" so to speak. An opportunity to face and confront your fears and anxieties, and the things that have been causing you pain. Confrontation can be painful, but it can also be liberating. You now have a husband that loves you. He will be there to help you through any negative emotions that going into the house may evoke. Doing trial run or a walk through will certainly give you an indication of how you are going to react emotionally to being in the house again. If you decide to do, I hope you walk into the house with your head held high and with a feeling of pride that you have, through your own hard work and perserverance, have been able to keep the house.
I hope things so well for you whatever you decide to do. Good luck.
Tamara
> I divorced my ex husband about 5 years ago after a really traumatic marriage. He is the reason I suffered a major breakdown. I once felt deeply for him, now, I would be only too happy to never, ever see him again.
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> We built a house together that we still jointly own, though I have not seen or heard from him since my divorce. I rent the house out and have maintained the bond (mortgage) alone.
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> My new husband and I had the opportunity of living there but I felt too much pain in the walls and he didn't want to live in "another man's" house.
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> We have the opportunity again that may become a necessity of living there.
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> Anyone think this might harm us?
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> Sabrina
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