Posted by karen_kay on October 21, 2004, at 14:59:05
In reply to What happens now?, posted by partlycloudy on October 21, 2004, at 14:27:57
sweetie, you take care of yourself. i'm sorry you find it so upsetting that some of the posts here aren't (ummmm, thinking of the words to say it properly) ???supportive???? i guess is the way to say it.
i think for me i just try to remember that we all have very different experiences in our lives, thus we all see things from our own perspective. what i try my best to do is see things from that other person's eyes. i don't always succeed, but many of my opinions have changed (and are still changing) by examining things from another perspective (and doll, i'm not saying you aren't doing that. just talking about myself).
i think it's easier not to get upset when i think to myself "i haven't seen some of the things this person has seen. i haven't experienced some of the things this person has. their personal opinions are based on what they've been through, just as mine are."
sweetheart, this is still "your babble". it's the same as it's always been dear. it's just that (imo) everyone wants to do good things and help eachother, but not everyone agrees what the best course of action is.
(((((sunshine)))))) now i'll sing you a song my mother used to sing to me when i was little.
you are my sunshine,
my only sunshine.
you make me happy
when skies are grey.
you'll never know dear,
how much i love you.
so please don't take
my sunshine
away...i'll post you that song as often as i can, if it helps you to feel better. please take very good care of yourself darling. i just hate to think of you being sad.
poster:karen_kay
thread:405522
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