Posted by just plain jane on September 22, 2004, at 16:12:08
In reply to Re: job interviews getting me down..., posted by pegasus on September 22, 2004, at 15:20:05
Oh, do I ever agree with partlycloudy and pegasus!!
Even though I have had problems with authority/controllers since my late teens, I have managed to be hired for and hold numerous jobs (at least for a year or two).
The interview, as pointed out, is a two way street. If you are truly wanting to take care of yourself, interviewing should be the time to find out if the job is something you WANT in your life.
Do you want to work for this person, or this company, with their attitude(s)?
If you find their interviewing style and attitude intimidating, chances are you won't thrive in their oppressive environment. It may be okay for short term while you continue to search for a better situation, but getting caught in a job you do not thrive in is counter to everything I've learned about taking care of myself.
The job is to support you. Not destroy you. The interview is yours. Anticipate the unpleasant things they could ask and rehearse some answers that put the ball in your court.
That quote in pegasus' reply for the grades issue is fabulous!!!
just plain jane
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