Posted by becksA on September 4, 2004, at 22:57:53
In reply to Re: wait X days cliche??? help!, posted by Susan47 on September 4, 2004, at 22:43:48
i agree, and she really seemed to like me, but i've just had a bad string of girls where if i open up emotionally right away (which is me...very emotional/sensitive), they get scared off and drop off the radar. at this point when im still trying to makek friends since the move, and i get this great girl...best i've met since i moved back almost a year ago, I'm tryingn to be careful.
Alright, I'll spill everything...In addition to all this I was worried about a little quandry I've found myself in. I recently got a DUI charge, which in addition to previous tickets will add up to so many points that I will probably lose my lisence. Most importantly I want people to know that is NOT me. I aquired all the tickets within the last 4 months, and all while on the wrong meds (too strong at that) to deal with my depression/anxiety. Prior to that, I hadn't had a single ticket of any kind, driving or non, my entire life.
She lives 20 minutes away and I'd obviously need to do some driving. The sentencing, ack i hate to even say words like that; it's really not me, is in a couple weeks, so that's when i'd lose the lisence. i don't want to break it to her on the phone before we even meet up in a non-party atmosphere that i have this situation. she'd think i have real legal probems...on the other hand, i don't want to scare her off with a lot of psycho-mumbo-jumbo.
i had thought of trying to get together with her once, before i lose the lisence, so she gets to know the real me a bit, then break it to her...but i dont want to act like im holding things from her. but the depression thing is the only way i can tell her without her thinking im a jailbird! ahhhhhhhhhhh
poster:becksA
thread:386525
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20040830/msgs/386532.html