Posted by Susan47 on August 27, 2004, at 9:52:57
In reply to Re: I love a man who doesn't love me. » PhoenixGirl, posted by sb417 on August 27, 2004, at 0:42:29
Phoenixgirl:
SB417 wrote this, pay attention: "That other person is not who we want him to be; he is who he is."
SB417 is a very wise one. That's really good insight and true true true. His or her therapist was right when he said "BELIEVE HIM". I don't know how many of us waste energy wanting someone to fill our romantic and sexual needs when they're just not able to. What if you slept with him and it turns out he's cold afterwards? I mean how would that make you feel, and react? Wouldn't it be worse than this?
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