Posted by Dinah on August 20, 2004, at 7:51:31
In reply to Cup half empty not half full, posted by SAW on August 20, 2004, at 4:24:55
It sounds perfectly normal to me. Any change, even good ones, involve both gaining and losing something. Let yourself grieve the things you are losing.
Then remember that everyone needs lots and lots of love and concern and find other ways to get your needs met. It isn't bad to need love. It isn't bad to need concern. There are just many ways to gain them.
What is your life situation? Who can you count on to be loving and caring? Maybe it will be a bit more mutual, but that can be sort of nice too. :)
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