Posted by woolav on August 10, 2004, at 8:24:49
Hello, I feel like I am going to explode..My step father has NPD and God only what else. He has done so much to hurt me over the years (he married my mom when i was 13) I am now 32...But I have tried so hard to "forgive and forget" and move on, but i cant do it anymore. My mother doesnt want to leave him for many reasons. Fear, losing out on his money, etc. So, I have told her i cant deal with him anymore and if I do get to the point where I tell him off..He will make it hard for me to see my mom. He is so munipulitive and controlling its really SICK> So, I feel like I will have to let go of my Mom to get away from him. But, i dont think i have a choice. I am confused and scared of the realization that my Mom will just let me go, so she can live the "lifestyle" she wants. Even though she is not happy and knows she's married to a psycho, she doesnt want to give up the money..Its very sad..
I dont know what to do....
S
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thread:375937
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