Posted by B2chica on August 5, 2004, at 18:18:34
In reply to If anyone cares....., posted by woolav on August 5, 2004, at 13:05:35
(((((woolav)))))
Of COURSE we care honeybunny!
Thank you very much for sharing what's going on in your life. that alone is not an easy thing to do. i definately agree that talk therapy is for you if/when you can afford it. Many therapists use a sliding scale for fees too, that may help?Quick question for you though (and i take no offense if you choose not to answer)
i think first of all being able to get out of a marriage that you got into SO young shows you have INCREDIBLE stregth so hang on to that. But out of curiosity, you got out of that marriage at 31 and are 32 and remarried. Did you have time to spend on just you? even if you haven't yet, please know that is VERY important, not just for yourself and your piece of mind but for your marriage as well. make sure you didn't forget who "woolav" is. And PLEASE know that this is NOT me being judgemental in ANY way! just want to make sure you are taking care of You along with the others in your life.I can imaging those strings have got to be a Constant pain, hopefully you can snip them soon.
>>10. I am thinking of moving... I dont care what they think anymore.
-are you saying this cuz you really believe it or because you want to believe it...
You are a strong intelligent woman and you should not let their words or actions control what you do OR don't do. (and i think you are on that path, keep going)>>11. My teenage daughter says she would hate me if i put her through what my mom put me through.
Just don't let that be held over your head though, you are YOU, not your mother. Make your decisions (similar or not) because it's what you think is best. Follow your heart woolav, sounds like you've got a great one.
>>...But I prob. need to work alot of issues out too....-you know, i just can't say this enough. These are just such strong words, it shows you are taking command of your own life..good for you. It sounds like you are really taking the right path for you, remember, no one knows you better (or what's good for you) better than You.
Best wishes and hope to see you lots here at PB!
B2c.
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