Posted by dragonfly25 on February 9, 2004, at 7:14:27
In reply to Re: hard choices, posted by Anya on February 9, 2004, at 1:10:49
Whatever it is, it was still something you didn't want. you made it clear several times. In my mind that is assault and the more detailed terminalogy doesn't matter. It is how you feel. It sounds like you should really go and talk to someone. I might have missed it when reading, but have you? Or just your friend? It also doesn't matter that much if you are making it worse in your head (unless dramaticly, but I doubt that).....if you know something happened that felt against your will it isn't right. And it isn't about brave decisions at all! From what I read it sounded like you did all *you* could do at the time. You were obviously scared before it happened? Anyway I just wanted to tell you all of that and that I really hope you go talk to someone.
take care
dragonfly
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