Posted by fallsfall on November 30, 2003, at 12:44:01
In reply to I don't want to die., posted by kara lynne on November 29, 2003, at 18:05:32
>>I didn't do anything today except watch television. I kept lying there thinking, I'm not doing anything, I'm not doing anything, I'm not doing anything...I should be doing something.
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You were doing something. You were resting and recouperating and, as octopusprime said, doing what YOU wanted to do. Eventually you will get bored just sitting there, and then YOU will want to do something else.> I guess it's really finally over. The ex has stopped leaving messages that I don't answer.
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Yes, it is really finally over. Let it die.> I have to be someone I respect first. I want to go back to the relative safety of a bad relationship rather than learning to respect myself.
You WANT to go back to the bad relationship because it is easy and familiar. But you are worth more than that. Invest in yourself - learn to respect yourself.
You really are so much stronger than when I met you. Have you read your old posts? Do you see how unhappy you were then? Do you see how much you have grown?
Cheering from the sidelines,
Falls
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