Posted by Susan J on October 27, 2003, at 12:45:41
In reply to Here's the scoop on how it went..., posted by Wildflower on October 25, 2003, at 1:25:39
Hiya!
I'm so glad the date went well! You deserve it. And it's so much fun when they go so smoothly...
of course, up until the end when he seems pushy for more...
I have been told by a few guy friends, and they certainly don't speak for the entire male population, but they think they are *supposed* to push for more as a sign of (1) their masculinity, and (2) further evidence they find you attractive.
Sometimes, they get really disappointed if you cave in and give them what they want.
Nobody said this was a healthy thought process. Just throwing it out there for thought. As long as the guy respects you saying no, respects your boundaries, I think it's probably OK that he got a little forward.
Enjoy the good. Keep a smart head about possible bad....but that's life, right?
:-)
Susan
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