Posted by octopusprime on October 22, 2003, at 0:33:05
In reply to Re: Sensitive material, posted by KellyD on October 21, 2003, at 22:24:36
kara lynne -
from what i know of you (which admittedly isn't much), i would say that your alleged "friend" was wrong on the count of being quick to judge and condemn. from what i have seen from your posts, you are anything but! you're always reconsidering positions and seeing people and things in new lights.
now here's where you and i differ - my default position is that i'm right and the person letting me down is a stupidhead. no fair. whine. stomp. but that's just me. :) and i do a lot of whining and stomping.
i really don't think it's oversensitivity on your part that's denying you of this "friendship". from where i sit, the alleged "friend" is not mature enough to handle the kind of emotional connection that grown-ups share in the real world.
it sucks to lose a friend, especially through no fault of your own. just say that over and over until you believe it. "it's not my fault." some people are just weird.
and vent until you're done here! we'll listen and not accuse you of negative personality traits.
boom-ba-boom-boom-ba-boom-boom-boom
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