Posted by Susan J on October 19, 2003, at 10:30:35
In reply to I love this thread :), posted by cybercafe on October 18, 2003, at 19:08:27
Hi, Cyber,
>>can you guys offer cybercafe any tips for initiating romance but not coming off too creepy?
<<I think it's all a matter of taste. Afterall, two very sexually agressive people would just *love* to meet one another. So it's best to be true to your own tastes.There is a fine art of flirting, which I have nowhere near mastered, that makes the other person feel wonderful and attractive without the flirtation being obviously sexual.
For me, saying someone is pretty or handsome is safe. Commenting on eyes is safe. And flattering. Saying someone's perfume or cologne smells wonderful is safe, yet comments on attraction. Any other body part is a little creepy to me.
All the other stuff should wait until two people know each other pretty darned well, as far as I'm concerned. :-)
Susan
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