Posted by KimberlyDi on September 17, 2003, at 11:21:43
In reply to Thank You » octopusprime, posted by Susan J on September 17, 2003, at 8:44:48
Yes yes yes!
"fake it until you make it"
"...the Japanese deal with depression by acting like it's not there, like they are happy, and that everything is fine. And eventually, this positive attitude helps them out of it."
Define reality. the real world. so-called real life. it doesn't matter. everyone's reality is unique. your world is how you perceive it. I'm almost to the "other side". What's different about life? NOTHING. I take AD's now instead of drinking. That helps. and I'm older. That hurts. It's like the "think outside the box" idea. Depression is life inside the box.
I'll stop now. But that's why I love Effexor. On Effexor, my perception of my life changed drasticly. And I love it.
KDi in Texas
> I really admire your strength, and insight into yourself, saying your strength seems to be mostly a front. And I *loved* your phrase, you're going to *fake it until you make it.*
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> That might actually be good advice for *me.* I read once that the Japanese deal with depression by acting like it's not there, like they are happy, and that everything is fine. And eventually, this positive attitude helps them out of it. Having now experienced major depression, I don't know how feasible that is, but perhaps it's a wonderful way to deal with more mild depression. When I'm not majorly depressed, I'm dysthymic.
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> You sound very strong to me, and your survival of such pain is very admirable. I wish you have no more pain, that days get brighter and better. And I hope you know how grateful *I* am to you for sharing your story. It helps, it really does.
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> Susan
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