Posted by octopusprime on September 14, 2003, at 13:03:02
In reply to Please advice/feedback/guidance, posted by galkeepinon on September 12, 2003, at 6:09:17
galkeepinon -
please don't feel bad for smoking or eating fast food or whatever. Although I had quit smoking for two months, I have recently started again, and I'm giving myself a break. It's a crutch that brings me a small pleasure. You wouldn't suggest a person with a broken leg throws away the crutch, would you? Talk to your doctor, adjust your meds, and once you start to heal you can address your crutches.
I love and hate talking to my mom too. I love her because I know she loves me no matter what I say or do. But I know I'm breaking her heart with my suffering. Maybe she is trying to control you because she loves you and wants you to be happy. She just doesn't know how to help, so she goes about it in the wrong way. It must be hard living with your mom, too - I couldn't do that!
Be strong, seek out the care you need, post here. I am sorry you are hurting, and hope you can put a little tiny dent in your work.
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