Posted by kara lynne on September 9, 2003, at 14:26:09
In reply to I'm Crazy, Aren't I? , posted by Susan J on September 9, 2003, at 14:05:38
I don't know all the circumstances, but if he is sincerely apologizing and wanting to do the work, it sure looks enticing, doesn't it? On the other hand I have found it to be true that people are constantly telling us who they are. It is up to us to see it and believe it. For the most part people remain who they are.
Again, I don't know what happened. If he did something that 'bottom-lined' it for you, you may never be able to trust him again--as it is in my case with my ex-boyfriend. He did something so cruel that even if he did come back wanting to fix it I don't think it could ever be fixed. Maybe it hasn't gotten to that point of no return for you, however.
Girl is smart to be cautious!
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