Posted by Chicklet on August 29, 2003, at 6:02:41
In reply to Down and draggy, posted by Tabitha on August 29, 2003, at 0:16:25
Hey. Sorry you had a bad week. Za heet- eets not helpingk matters, yes? I can't stand it either. but Fall is my absolutelutelutey favorite time of the year and Christmas is only 4 months away (are people going to 'scrroge' me now...I remember the board last Christmas)!! Wee!
Yeah, it sucks that when you feel low, you start missing exes more than you would have before. i hate it. it's amazing how i view everyone and every situation so completely differently depending on an Up or Down. I think I feel like I'm much more dependent and needy when i'm down and that often leads to "Aahh the good ole days" thoughts, whether they're legit or not.
I think just SEEING your friend and getting out -even if this is not a 'self-disclosure' friend will make you feel a little better. Good for you for sticking to it. I cancel on people so much. i just hate it.
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>because of the depressed vibes?
From what people have told me, I don't (and you probably don't either) put out as many vibes as we think. I could just barely eke out a day and think, "Oh God, I screwed up- my boss is gonna see that I can't write when I'm like this...". And everyone notices and they don't like spending time with me...
I know that my mood is coloring my views but I can stop it. If I could I'd be all better, right?
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>Burning Man festival. I decided not to go this year, for some good reasons,You will die, i tell you...just die when you read the 'article' from the Onion that I sent you.
Once again, with the "wearing out my friends" feeling...i think we exaggerate that feeling too.
In our own perception anyway.> Maybe I should get a massage.
Sounds like a plan. i'd give you one if you lived out here. Magic fingers, they call me.
Karen
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