Posted by Phil on August 28, 2003, at 9:25:39
In reply to fallsfall, posted by kara lynne on August 28, 2003, at 1:22:14
http://www.slaafws.org/pamphlets/40questions.html
kara lynne, The above link will motivate you to not call. I haven't read all of your posts about the relationship but I think this site can help.
These relationships have nothing to do with love.Addictive relationships are very serious. Don't call him ever. Once you're away for a short time, the effects wear off and you'll be happy he's gone. See him as he is, not how you want him to be. In AlAnon, we called this drill falling in sick with someone.
Be strong, okay?
Phil
ps: One question I ask myself when I catch myself in these piles of ---- is: If the two of you had children, which one of you would you want the kids to be like.
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