Posted by fallsfall on August 27, 2003, at 10:54:46
In reply to Screaming again..., posted by Penny on August 27, 2003, at 9:13:37
Yes. She clearly said that she moved in with you for your benefit. But she also says that she is willing to be flexible. And she says that she doesn't want to lose your friendship.
Sounds like she has some ambivalence. Personally, I have trouble with ambivalence. I like my world black and white. But, I think that ambivalence is probably a better way to go. Can you see it that way? That there were good things and bad things - and hopefully, in the long run, the good things are more important than the bad.
This is really hard for you. Good Luck
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