Posted by Tabitha on August 22, 2003, at 10:34:26
In reply to Re: Kara Lynne?, posted by kara lynne on August 21, 2003, at 19:40:32
Hi KL, I'm sorry about the conversation with the ex-friend. That sure wasn't what you needed right now, was it? It sounds like you might be blaming yourself a bit though-- please don't do that. If she could not accept an apology, and could not listen in kind to your feelings, well then-- she doesn't really have very good friendship skills, does she? You reached out, took a risk, shared some vulnerable feelings with her-- that shows courage.
I know starting over with relationships is hard. When you have too few.. then the remaining ones take on more importance than they really warrant, and little hurts get magnified, and you start blaming yourself for not having the satisfying relationships you need. At least that's what happens with me.
I know this is a difficult transition for you, but keep connecting with your feelings, and reaching out to people-- eventually you'll find the friends and partner you need.
poster:Tabitha
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