Posted by Susan J on August 12, 2003, at 9:17:39
In reply to Re: How do I get away from messed-up people? » Susan J, posted by fallsfall on August 11, 2003, at 16:39:04
Hi, guys,
Thanks so much for the encouraging words. It really did make me feel better.
This guy is very unhealthy emotionally. I didn't know it until too late. I told him about my depression, and he seemed so accepting and supportive about it. But when I tried to tell him (in a kind and non-accusative way, I think) that some of his habits aren't the healthiest, he just threw it back in my face that I was in therapy. Said "I" was the one who's unhealthy. I said at least I'm learning how to be healthy when you won't even consider something different.....
He's a jerk. I just didn't know it. I don't fall for many people (either romantically or platonically), but when I do, I fall hard and quickly -- too quickly it seems -- before I understand their true colors.
Thanks so much for everything. :-)
poster:Susan J
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