Posted by paxvox on July 23, 2003, at 17:37:16
In reply to So Screwed up.... again, posted by giget on July 23, 2003, at 14:45:55
Well.........why does he feel the need to email you to tell you how terrible you are/were if he is your "ex" boyfriend? Is he sending them to YOU or is he REPLYING to yours? If the relationship is indeed over, then the last thing you need is to hear from him how bad things have been. That's sorta cruel, I think! I understand your desire to "hold on to what you can", but if it's dead, it's dead, and you are doing no good by trying to breathe life back into it. Ultimately, you are being more harmful to yourself and subjecting yourself to further harm from him, by continuing this email exchange. Probably not what you wanted to hear, but if you wanted some objective feedback.........
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