Posted by fallsfall on July 17, 2003, at 17:50:44
In reply to Re: sometimes..., posted by kara lynne on July 17, 2003, at 17:39:26
Penny,
My friend's parents were abusive - physically and emotionally. She has the same question - how can the parents who abused her be the same parents who loved her?
Your story is filled with joy and pain. You knew the grandfather who was loving and generous.
Although - someone else may have a wiser answer. My vision is obscured by Borderline splitting - Black and White thinking. Perhaps those who can tolerate ambiguity will have a better answer.
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