Posted by gabbix2 on July 9, 2003, at 23:49:33
NO.
Because you will be left with an unscratched itch.
YOu won't recieve the tender welcoming voice you crave, nor will you preserve the dignity you have so far.
You will hang up the phone with a renewed sense of anger and frustration and be infuriated that he's still "himself" and you
called expecting something different, because you
crave the tenderness and deserve it so much.
The thing is you can't argue with a fool.And sometimes when you're in that limbo you spoke of, you can't move forward yet, and you can't unpack, you need some sort of release so even a negative one can somehow seem appealing.
Just don't give him anymore satisfaction. You've given him enough of yourself. Its even symbolic
He's 200lbs and you're 98. I think that says a lot right there.And you can e-me too you know.
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