Posted by kalyb on June 13, 2003, at 9:35:31
In reply to Re: An alien on my own planet » kalyb, posted by tina on June 12, 2003, at 21:52:51
Hi tina,
> I am so so sorry you've had to deal with that kind of insensitive attitude. I know what it's like to be told that I'm "self-absorbed or lazy" or the classic "just get busier and you'll feel better"
oooooh yes!! I've had this one from her....lol
> Your friend's comments are just the ramblings of an ignorant, non-understanding ingrate.
Thanks, I am sooo glad someone else sees this the way I do. I think what really destroyed my trust in her is that dogged insistence that my relationship breakup was my fault. She liked the guy a lot, and had a few favours done for her by him. Plus he was good for me, plus he was intellectual, well- paid, had a house in a very desirable location, had good social status....and if we'd contunied seeing each other, I'd have moved in with him.... need I go on? ;)
> I don't have any great advice for you, I'm just so sorry you had to go through that and I wanted you to know.
thanks a lot Tina, it does make a difference, you know :))))) I am just so happy I found this board with all you great people, before this I was alone with it all, and not a soul to share with. I used to call up the Samaritans several times a week, just for someone to talk to.
Thank you to everyone who replied. My appreciation of you all is deep and heartfelt.
Kalyb xx
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