Posted by kazoo on March 11, 2003, at 5:26:26
In reply to Trapped, posted by daizy on March 9, 2003, at 14:01:58
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> Im trapped, I have no where to go and I have to get out of the situation Im in now.........
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I do, too. Want to get hitched?> Im living with my family who think that this Illness is my fault, they throw money at me and buy me things, thats their way of showing love, not talking about things, must keep everything inside.
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Be thankful your parents are alive. You'll miss them when they're gone. I miss mine. Re. blaming you for your illness, have you ever confronted them with this? If they admit to this, then are you giving them reason for believing this? I don't know your parents (hence, cannot be more certain) but unless you get it from the horse's mouth, consider this projection on your part.Take the money they "throw" at you and put it in a high-yielding bank account, preferably a "Certificate of Deposit" (CD). When you get enough of it, then you can make the decision to leave.
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> Its because of them Im depressed, they argue and lie to each other, my first memories are of them fighting. Im caught up in their web, All I want to do is break free, but I have nowhere to go........
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What does their rotten life have to do with you? Are they making you the object of their fighting and misery? In other words, are you the reason they are fighting? If so, I suggest a pair of ear plugs found in any drug store. If not, then you should learn from them and not make the same mistakes later in life.>
> I went to Uni to try and escape, fearing I might be blamed for the lies, I took drugs, I starved myself, I shut myself away, I hate myself what more do they want from me..........
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Get a grip. Jump into Academia with a vengence and zeal as to transcend the miserable ignorance of your parents ... but at all times, be respectful of them because without them, you would be null and void; i.e., not exist.Now aren't you lucky to be alive at this point in time?
kazoo
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