Posted by IsoM on March 1, 2003, at 1:10:13
In reply to Re: Handsome, looks, personality or BOTH? » bozeman, posted by bluedog on March 1, 2003, at 0:03:34
Being brutally honest, bluedog, I've seen you & you're not a bad looking guy at all. AND you're not overweight in the least. Your problem is shyness & lack of confidence. Over-confidence in a guy is a real turn-off but a *little* "swagger" helps, just as long as it's playful & not ego.
Believe me - when a woman gets old enough to know a good guy (& she doesn't have to be old - some know what makes a guy good, in their late teens even), she'll pick charisma, a twinkle in the eye, & a sparkling wit any day! And don't think women don't appreciate a gentleman - they do.
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