Posted by Miller on January 16, 2003, at 11:51:26
In reply to SI and suicidal ideation and me, posted by Dinah on January 16, 2003, at 9:37:20
Dinah,
I read the post you are referring to. The ONLY reason I did not reply was because you asked for noone to reply.
It was not only distasteful, but a clear form of targeting you in a very disrespectful manner. I certainly won't use the word "uncivil" due to the vague meaning on this forum.
I want you to know, that you are open for discussion about this, that the post in question was WRONG. Not only is it your right to post your feelings, it is a necessity, if you are like most of us. As for the attention-seeking comments that were made, I was appalled. I can honestly say that most of us DO want attention, that is why we keep coming back. I expect posts and even silences to be made for the purpose of attention and support. Therefore, nothing you say will make me see you any differently than I always have.
I see you as a very comforting person to all of us here. Most of us wish we could help you out more. In fact, it seems to me, that you post very little about your struggles. Your way of getting attention, I bet, is to be needed by others. And you are. You are very valuable to me and many others. So was Beardy. Regular support is what we all need.
Please feel free to ALWAYS post your feelings. I, if possible, will always try to see you through the rough times. I appreciate open and honesty. I am sorry other posters don't.
Chocolate and snuggles.
-Miller
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