Posted by Tabitha on December 28, 2002, at 17:03:59
Hi, about that yoga girl, before you take the big step of engaging her in conversation, how about starting even slower, like just a smile and eye contact, and then a "Hi", before or after class. That's just simple friendliness. You can judge her reaction to that, and gradually work up to complete sentences. Baby steps might make it easier for both of you.
From experience, I used to take yoga, and there were so few males there, I would have been thrilled if one of them singled me out to be friendly. Actually I would have been thrilled if anyone was friendly. Everyone seemed so serious about yoga.
P.S. I always felt terribly self-conscious doing that cat post, certain someone was staring at my ass. If not in lust, then in horror.
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