Posted by shar on November 17, 2002, at 21:33:43
In reply to Re: Sorry :( » Dinah, posted by BeardedLady on November 13, 2002, at 12:22:20
You said about your T:
> He told me how so different our personalities are that, because she organized the job in her own way, it became uncomfortable and unmanageable for me, because the emphasis was on what she likes about the project.
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I think that is a great insight, and something that can occur without a lot of noise so we don't always notice it. I'm going to remember this one for sure, because I've just started to do some work in my sister's business, which has stirred up a load of crap (and I recognized immediately what your T was talking about because it's part of what's happening).As to other stuff, I've always sort of viewed our ups and downs as a roller coaster ride, and I appreciate your directness and ability to put things into perspective (meaning you don't take everything personally). When the two of us are discussing or debating or sparring or having a battle of wits, I don't feel I have to tippy toe, and I like that a lot. It has gotten heated, and it has been fun at times, too....sort of like life in action. But, when I saw that title of your first post, I felt nothing but true concern about your well-being.
Could be so we can live to spar another day, but whatever the reason, my hope is for you to feel better and not suffer these trials.
Great good luck to you in working things out. I bet you already know these things can take time and yada yada yada so I won't go into all that.
Shar
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