Posted by Dinah on October 14, 2002, at 9:08:10
In reply to he said I was a loser., posted by GabbiX2 on October 14, 2002, at 8:36:28
Well, I pinched myself so I know *I'm* real.
Does it matter what he says? Other than it hurts. And it's okay to hurt. It's natural to hurt. But who you are doesn't depend on what anyone says about you. Not him, not me.
Look down inside Gabbi. I'll bet you see kindness and generosity. I'll bet you see charm and humor. Maybe you see some things you don't like as well. I think we all do. And that's okay. We're all works in progress.
But let him and what he says about you go, Gabbi. There's no real point in dwelling on any of it. It doesn't make anything any better. Grieve and move on, Gabbi. See it as a learning experience. I hate to see you beat yourself up with this. I know it's easier said than done, and I know it's your life and your choice. But I just don't see any benefit to you in thinking about it.
You felt well yesterday, and you will feel well again. It just takes time.
Take care, sweetie.
Dinah
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