Posted by jay on September 5, 2002, at 4:44:56
In reply to bitter medicine, posted by Medusa on September 2, 2002, at 14:17:53
A good friend of mine (who is actually the most popular drummer in the world..but I saaaaz no more:-) said that one of the nicest things you can do is to let others do nice things for you.So, without abusing it, take advantage of everyone from family to even some odd friend. Good for them...good for you. Even if you make phonecalls out of the blue and ask for help...or just ask people if you can 'delegate' a responsibility of yours too them (again, not going overboard)...damn it works charms.
We've become too individualistic here in N. America, and think it's 'polite' to decline help. Bullhooey!! (Nice word, eh?..heh)Kindness is contagious...and we need a hell of a lot more of it!
Anyhow...enough of my sermon :-)
Peace,
Jay
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