Posted by jay on August 30, 2002, at 13:35:35
In reply to Re: Gosh, Jay » jay, posted by ~~tabitha~~ on August 30, 2002, at 5:10:15
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> > Why can't deep male sensitivity, a nurturing personality, all of those things be a plus for guys? No I don't watch football, no I don't like 'cars' and drink beer with 'the boys'..yadda yadda...and it p*sses me off when a women get's so googly eyed over a "macho" guy.
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> Um, Jay, nurturing and sensitivity are BIG pluses. Some women will like the macho guys, sure, but some won't. There's a woman out there for you.
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> I need to get my personal ad online. I'm scared to even get started. At least you're trying, even though not much luck yet. I need new clothes, a picture, an ad, courage, energy, etc. Have not dated at all for about 2 yrs but it's time.You know the weird thing Tabitha, is I have had my ad online for a few months now. So, here is my ad, in which it asks you to "describe" yourself:
-----How would you describe yourself?
I am 32, college educated, no children, don't smoke. I have super-short light brown hair, brown eyes, olive-tan complexion, and am in fairly good shape at 195 lbs. I have no facial hair. I am a caring, compassionate, positive guy. I also love all types of music, from fine jazz to alt-rock, and I live life as fully as possible. I am open, and non-judgemental, and not superficial. I like philosophy, good wine, evenings spent talking by the fireplace in a cabin in the middle of winter. I love to go for walks in autumn woods and under winter skies. I present myself well. I am slightly shy, but also can be funny and humourous. Humour get's me through life. :-)
---I've gotten three replies, mostly from people either just looking for sex (I don't mind sex..lol..but geezz it can't be the ONLY thing!!), and from people who have *nothing* to say about themselves. (No matter how many times you email them.)
Maybe you or somebody can give me tips here...as I just feel so lost in all of this. Oyyyyyy...I need a couple of Tylenol..hehe..
Thanx,
Jay
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