Posted by Dinah on August 4, 2002, at 23:31:26
In reply to Re: this is so tricky dinah/bobby, posted by Ctrlaltndel : ) on August 4, 2002, at 23:24:26
Hmm. Waiting until the stresses settle might be a good idea. Whether it would turn out well or poorly, it would be bound to add stress of some sort to your life and that can be so bad for people with problems like ours.
Once you are set up somewhere safe with your dear kitty, you will be able to decide and follow through from a place of strength. And if you do decide to see him, feeling more stable yourself can only increase the chances that it will go well.
It sounds wise, dreamer, and you know your situation best. But there's no harm in dreaming and remembering the good times... Something to hold on to when things get bleak.
Just my humble opinion of course.
poster:Dinah
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