Posted by phazedout on August 3, 2002, at 6:27:54
In reply to I need some advice, posted by fiona on July 27, 2002, at 14:26:01
Why are you so concerned about your ma? Is it that you think if she gets help it will help you? Don't you think you run the 'risk' of becoming her support? Don't you think that IF she comes to you with her problems its gonna make the process so much more difficult for you? Hey I know nothing but this: at times I need to see certain people as 'demons' - not that I don't understand they have their own problems but hey if I'm in therapy thinking about how much I understand their problems and how sorry I am for that then how the hell do I deal with my feelings of resentment, abandoment etc., so guess this doesn't really help.
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