Posted by susan C on August 1, 2002, at 15:08:53
In reply to Am I Being Awful? (sorry long), posted by mair on July 31, 2002, at 17:33:15
One thing, i dont think is in your very carefully thought out list, is what her doctor recommends. I think the perspective/recommendation of her medical provider regarding whether or not or when or how much or what kind of work she returns to would be very important.
If she were me (and I have been in a similar situation) my doctor's perspective would be very important.
I also got the impression from your post that you are not the primary decision maker where her position or employment is concerned. If you are, there are lots of things to be investigated. If you are not, it seems to me, the question for yourself, would be, "how much do I need to involve myself in this problem and at what point do I draw the line and let things go?"
mouse on a teeter totter
poster:susan C
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