Posted by SusanG on April 29, 2002, at 19:09:02
In reply to Any Help At All? » kazoo, posted by IsoM on April 29, 2002, at 11:12:13
I withdraw my suggestion of "forgiveness". I know you are not at all in a place to even consider it, not at this time, maybe never. I guess what I am trying to say is what others have said here without the "f" word. That is that this is clearly so painful for you and I hope you can come to a point where you will let go of some of the anger, hate, and pain since at this point it serves no purpose but to make you miserable. Like IsoM mentioned, maybe there are resources to help you get through this pain, whether or not you end up forgiving. And please understand that I do not mean that by forgiving you are in any way removing the responsibility from those who have done horrible things to your family. It is all about you finding peace. I hope you do.
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