Posted by IsoM on April 27, 2002, at 17:36:54
In reply to Re: Cass!! How's the love life? Update? » Phil, posted by Cass on April 27, 2002, at 15:56:16
Cass, your relationships with both may just evolve on their own without you being dishonest to either.
If this new man IS for you, I'm happy for you. In no way did I mean that anyone with a previous addiction is not suitable as a mate. If it's something he continues to work on & doesn't lose interest in continuing his ongoing rehabilitation (it's life long, I'm sure he knows it), he may be the perfect mate for you.
Your old boyfriend may simply change over time into a comfortable, close friendship without the physical intimacy. I see no reason why a couple cannot have good friends of the opposite sex than them. You may feel more open with him about this other man after a while. Take care.
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