Significant Others, please help - sex depression

Posted by Krazy Kat on April 19, 2002, at 9:54:36

can men, women, and significant others, please help me figure out where i am in the realm of "fairness" re: the frequency of sex in a long-term relationship and depression?
as a manic/depressive, when manic, sex is more frequent for me. when depressed, it is less. is this really fair to the long term significant other? i have been led to believe, over ten years, that it is not.
my depressions can last a couple of months, but i have never let our intimacy fall below a once a week average (or so I say, he would differ, i'm sure). healthy for me, seems to be @ twice a week.
am i way off? do other couples struggle with this?
thanks.
- kk

Thread

Significant Others, please help - sex depression Krazy Kat 4/19/02
Re: Significant Others, please help - sex depression SusanG 4/19/02
Re: Significant Others, please help - sex depression CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
Re: above.......for krazy kat^^^^^^^^^ (nm) CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
sexual healing beardedlady 4/21/02
thank you for the frank answers... Krazy Kat 4/21/02
Re: thank you for the frank answers..KK. CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
where should i discuss it? ;) (nm) » CtrlAlt n Del Krazy Kat 4/21/02
Re: where should i discuss it? ;) » Krazy Kat CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
On open-chat it's always a welcome topic! (nm) Kaarina 4/21/02
Re or babble 2000 : ) (nm) CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
Re: Kaarina kaarina so erm good I named you twice » Kaarina CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
Re: yeh second thoughts .KK..........LE CHAT (nm) CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
Re: G-Plunkt versus the AFE-Zone CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
Re: correction G-Punkt (fraudian sliptz) (nm) CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
chat - all alone again... Krazy Kat 4/21/02
Re: chat - all alone again... » Krazy Kat CtrlAlt n Del 4/21/02
is your cat back? (nm) » CtrlAlt n Del Krazy Kat 4/22/02
Re: yes.. sleeping on my washed clothes (nm) » Krazy Kat CtrlAlt n Del 4/22/02

Post a new follow-up

Notify the administrators

Start a new thread

poster:Krazy Kat thread:22268
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20020411/msgs/22268.html