Posted by kiddo on February 2, 2002, at 1:26:53
In reply to I'm sorry all, posted by creature on February 1, 2002, at 23:39:44
You aren't taking advantage of the group, that's what it and us are here for. Everyone goes through a time of being in need. This is your time, no need to feel guilty, or upset about it, don't give it another thought. You certainly don't need to add another stresser to your already too long a list.
There are MANY wonderful people on the board-you being one of them. Accept it for what it is and know you are welcome to ask for help anytime you need it. You are definitely deserving.
I'm sorry to hear about everything that's going on with you. Take this this time to spend with Rick, focus your time on the two of you. Take the phone off the hook, and him in your arms and let everything else go. Is there anything else more important right now? Someone else mentioned the paper plates, etc., good ideas. Do everything you can think of to make the load lighter.
When you cook make extra, put them in individual dishes and freeze them for later. Then when you thaw them out, you'll have dinner ready.Be sure to take some time for you. Doing something to relax you. A bubble bath by candlelight, relaxing and it's something you have to do anyway. It's one of my favorite ways to relax. Read a book, or whatever it is that helps you unwind.
You are right, Rick needs you right now, so focus your energy and support on him and we'll give you what we can.
If your mother upsets you, stop contact, at least temporarily. Stress not only takes away from the one who needs you the most, but will eventually tear YOU apart, you don't need to become sick yourself.
I apologize for not having any magic answers or sage advice. I will listen and reply when I can though, you aren't alone here.
Take care and know my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kiddo
> for taking advantage of this group
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> i post and post without offering anyone else support or encouragement
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> I am very needy and have nothing to give to others
> and I know you all have your own struggles without me being a vampire and sucking you dry
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