Posted by Mair on November 20, 2001, at 21:46:13
In reply to Re: Whatever happened to anger turned inward? » sar, posted by Dinah on November 20, 2001, at 17:06:51
"The idea is that it breaks the unproductive cycle that you get in in a relationship, and encourages positive change. And actually it is a very effective relationship technique, in my experience. As I said, behaving "as if" is good in an interpersonal sense. It just doesn't change my internal feelings."
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If it doesn't change the internal feelings, what then is the point? I'm not trying to be glib, I'm just not sure i understand this.Mair
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