Posted by Wendy B. on September 2, 2001, at 11:07:14
In reply to Re:..advice on having a baby » Wendy B., posted by Cindylou on September 1, 2001, at 7:01:01
Hey Cindy!
Glad to help you think about these things, I'm just a baby kinda person, when it comes right down to it. My child is the most beautiful addition to the world I could have ever hoped for. Would have loved to have another, but... I'm 41, and don't see it on the horizon right now. Those eggs and estrogen have their own little timetable, and we are just their pawns...
So, give us the update when you come to your final decision...
Would love to have an on-line baby shower, maybe the first of its kind? hee-hee.
Giddily,
W.
> Dear Wendy,
> Your post brought tears to my eyes -- good tears! Thank you, thank you, thank you. Everything you said makes sense to me.
> cindy
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> > Cindy,
> > I agree with the things Nikki says - you don't have to nurse the baby, so could go on the meds right after the baby is born. Also, monitoring your moods during the pregnancy, via therapy, would probably be a good idea.
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> > If you've found baby #1 so rewarding, and you talk about it as though you have, surely your #2 will be wonderful too. Different, because all children are, but equally wonderful. If you think your child should have a sibling, then you're probably right. You'll never regret having another child, but if you don't do it because of your worries, you could regret it for a lifetime...
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> > There are no guarantees in life, for anyone. So you may pass a *susceptibility* to your illness to your children, but you may not. Even if you do, isn't life still worth living, and wouldn't it be for them as well, even though they might become ill? Look at all of us, struggling every day, but keepin' on keepin' on, looking for beauty where/when we can, through it all. Does this make any sense?
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> > Another thing: you'd know what to look for if your child did become ill, and you'd be better able to help them get any treatment they might need.
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> > Hope some of this helps...
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> > Wendy
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