Posted by mila on July 17, 2001, at 22:36:58
In reply to rock+hardplace, fryingpan+fire- sit. rep., posted by geekUK on July 17, 2001, at 19:29:15
Hi MC,
I do not have any advice for you, you are in a difficult situation, really. but if i had it would be something like that:
do something you care about, if possible, with abandonment ( you can write a long post here about something too). It doesn't have to be about you. Distract yourself for a while. Maybe after such a timeout the decision will be clearer in your mind.
You have to see the outcome of your decision more clearly. Right now it is mostly about "being alone or being with wrong people". Imagine something else. HINT: 'being in a company of good people' :)
I wish you well. I believe you can get better and you will.
best,
mila
poster:mila
thread:7561
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