Posted by Adam on November 22, 2000, at 9:32:02
In reply to Need Some Advice, posted by Adam on November 21, 2000, at 19:13:44
Again, I think you all are right: One must be compassionate, but also use common sense. I'm leaning as hard as I can to get legal counsel involved immediately. The very fact that it hasn't happened already is, in my mind, a clear indicator of the unconventional (or simply disorganized) environment in which she works. She has done a great deal to imrove on this (hence her rapid ascent), but it seems, unfortunately, she must take the intitiative again even when others should have a long time ago.
I must, at this point, confess my own transgression in that I did not get her complete permission to print my concerns here (meaning I should have let her see the message before I posted it). It was not my first impulse to share it with her at all, but seeing the real potential for violence, I did, and I think she rightly feels my description of events contained too much detail, is concerned about its accuracy, since it contains only one perspective, and wishes I hadn't done it. So I must apologize to you all, too, since I clearly overstepped a bound myself, and may have done her harm. I'm hoping very much nothing comes of it. Perhaps I should look to counsel myself to make sure nothing I say could be incriminating, or that I absorb that responsibility completely. I should say publically she has never been deprecating in her descriptions of anyone in that organization. If any individuals or the institution appear in a negative light, it is my own assessment, and in no way reflects her oppinions. It is the record of events, with possible mistakes, through my own lense, and I take full responsibility for any wrongdoing if I have done wrong.
But, be that as it may, I am, as I said, doing what I can to make sure this proceeds expeditiously to a lawyers office. I will post followups, though I hope you understand, I will need to be more vague.
Thank you very much for your help.
poster:Adam
thread:3090
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