Posted by southernsky on December 14, 2009, at 14:50:27
In reply to Re: emotional catharsesis and uncomfortable result, posted by lingonberry on December 13, 2009, at 4:03:53
Ligonberry,
Wow-I went back and read some of your other posts too--every post you write sounds like it's coming from an expert!
"I dont think you have to be afraid of developing some kind of compulsive behaviour because of this, but it surely can be helpful to keep an eye on it."
Thanks for your reassurance. My fear is not necessarily the sexual defense/compusion/ incident, but the fear my sexuality would somehow become ruined because of this....like you said-developing the behavior.. I know it might sound out there to have this fear, but my sexuality was always something I felt very comfortable with....and I dont' want it to change. So this could be temporary to mask emotional pain, I see.that's ok, but I'm hoping this does not reoccur....I can't wait to talk to T for him to comfort me about this.He will probably have all the answers..
What does this mean, if you don't mind if I ask:
"Right, now, Im in the end of the infant/toddler phase and all thoughts about sex are gone with the wind. Im asocial, asexuala everything. Feels like my whole life is on hold and all there is is my basic needs. So you will get over it..."
Are there certain stages in therapy that bring on sexual feelings?
Thanks so much for sharing with me and you are very brave too! :-) (((Ligonberry)))
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