Posted by sunnydays on September 30, 2008, at 10:23:40
In reply to What lurks underneath idealization?, posted by lucie lu on September 29, 2008, at 18:33:07
Idealization to me is seeing someone as unrealistically perfect, not having loving feelings for them. I tend to do this sometimes when I am angry at him - I 'switch' somehow because I get scared and become convinced he's the most perfect person when really he's just another human being. So that's what I think is the difference.
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