Posted by nebulae on August 18, 2008, at 22:15:25
In reply to Re: Update: Termination because of strong transfer » nebulae, posted by raisinb on August 18, 2008, at 11:12:58
Raisinb,
Thanks so much for your reply. I don't know what's going on. I tried to ask him that maybe he overreacted, but you can't win any argument with him, he kept saying all those things i already mentioned.
I agree on the point about walking on eggshells and being resentful. It's also hard to see myself going through these last sessions, knowing that the full trust isn't there anymore, that this relationship is coming to an end. So why invest?
What also bothers me, is why he never mentioned or pointed out any of those bad things he now says he had noticed long time ago? Why did they come up for the first time at the last session? He also said that my transference was at times bordering on inappropriate. So why did he not warn me and set boundaries then and there??? Instead, he let it evolve into this angry message i left him, and now he is terminating!
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