Posted by raisinb on January 19, 2008, at 12:42:58
In reply to Re: thoughts on this? » raisinb, posted by Dinah on January 19, 2008, at 12:16:11
Yes--I can think--or say--things about myself that devastate me when I find out that's what *she* thinks of me or how she sees me. I suppose at bottom I want her to contradict my negative feelings about myself, not confirm them.
And if I'm feeling attacked or criticized--in any area--I always fight and dig my heels in. Causes me a few problems at work sometimes :)
I might do that--bring in the post. Always a good idea.
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